All the famous engagement rings from Sex and the City unveiled

Most of us know about Sex and the City. This great American TV series, with two film spin-offs and now a reboot, is a global phenomenon. The series revolves around the adventures of four New York City beauties (Carrie, Charlotte, Miranda and Samantha) and is full of love, lust, romance, heartbreak, and, most importantly, fashion. This show exhibited some great jewellery over the years, including the character's famous engagement rings.

So, let’s take a closer look at the beautiful diamond engagement rings that we have seen in Sex and The City over the years. As you browse through these famous looks, you can use it as a source of inspiration.

 

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What can Sex and the City's famous engagement rings teach us about personal style?

Sex and the City showcased memorable diamond engagement rings that reflected each character's unique personality. Carrie's 5-carat black diamond surrounded by pavé stones from Mr. Big emphasized her distinctiveness, while her turquoise ring from Aidan offered a more unconventional choice. Charlotte, ever the traditionalist, chose a classic 2.17-carat solitaire brillant for her first engagement, later receiving a 3-carat asscher diamond from Harry. Miranda's cushion-cut ring balanced sophistication with practicality, and Samantha's diamond flower ring represented her independence when she couldn't commit to marriage.

These iconic rings continue to inspire couples seeking engagement rings that express individual style and personal meaning, demonstrating that the perfect ring should reflect the wearer's unique character.

     

Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the City her 5-carat black diamond ring in pave setting featuring 80 diamonds

Carrie Bradshaw her black diamond ring from Mr. Big

After a tumultuous relationship, Mr. Big finally asks Carrie to marry him. He does so with a black, 5-carat diamond, surrounded by 80 (!) pavé diamonds.
This engagement ring is one of the most beautiful engagement rings in TV history.

The black-centre ring seen on Carrie in the films is widely credited as an Itay Malkin design that entered popular awareness through Patricia Field’s wardrobe for the movies; production notes and designer interviews link the striking black centre and heavy pavé surround to that collaboration. Reported ring specs for the screen piece vary, but many descriptions agree on a roughly five-carat central black stone flanked by dozens of small pavé diamonds set in white gold. These production credits and specific counts have been noted by boutique retailers and costume sources involved with the films.

If you are inspired by Carrie’s black diamond, a few practical verification steps matter. First, distinguish natural black diamonds from treated or composite stones, because natural black diamonds occupy a different market position than enhanced material. Ask for a recognised gemological certificate that states whether the stone is natural or treated and lists weight, cut and any treatments. Second, request full details on pavé total diamond weight and metal type for accurate valuation and insurance purposes. Finally, keep in mind that treatment status and origin information affect value and care. Natural black diamonds in large sizes are uncommon, while many visually similar stones on the market are enhanced; certification is the clearest way to document what you are buying.

When Carrie asks why he chose a black diamond engagement ring, he answers: “because you are not like anybody”. Mr. Big has a great point in this moment. Every woman is unique and deserves a beautiful diamond engagement ring which suits her personality and taste. That is why more men are buying tailor-made rings.

The moment Mr. Big presents the black diamond plays out as one of the franchise’s most quoted lines, when Carrie asks why a black stone and he replies, “because you are not like anybody.” The reveal appears in later storylines and again in the second film, and costume notes and press coverage underline the ring’s memorable screen presence.
Samantha her exquisite diamond flower she got from an auction at Christie’s in New York

Samantha’s trendy flower ring

In the first Sex and the City movie, Samantha bids on an exquisite diamond flower ring at an auction at Christie's in New York. Although it is not an engagement ring per se, the ring holds sentimental value.

When Samantha later learns that her boyfriend, Smith Jerrod, bought this ring for her as an engagement ring, she could not commit to the long-term relationship. It is a turning point in the life of the otherwise wild Samantha. Flowers (and other natural elements) are still one of the biggest jewellery trends worldwide.
the traditional 2.17 carat solitaire brilliant shared between Charlotte and Trey in the third season of Sex and the City

The engagement ring from Charlotte and Trey

In season 3, Charlotte and Trey choose an engagement ring together. Charlotte, known for her classical style, opts for a traditional solitaire brilliant of 2.17 carats. An excellent choice. After all, this model is still the most popular engagement ring.

Samantha’s auction win for the floral diamond ring is shown in the first Sex and the City movie during a Christie’s scene, where the piece becomes a focal point of her storyline; later coverage and interviews reference the auction purchase as the emotional moment when Smith Jerrod’s intentions become clear.
Miranda Hobbes and Steve Brady in Sex and the City

Miranda’s engagement ring from Steve Brady

Miranda Hobbes, the fiercely independent lawyer, receives a remarkable engagement ring from her partner, Steve. This beautifully crafted piece showcases a classic cushion-cut diamond engagement ring, framed by a delicate band, embodying both strength and sophistication. Reflecting Miranda's pragmatic yet romantic nature, this ring signifies a balance between her career ambitions and her desire for love, serving as a poignant reminder that true romance can blossom amidst life's complexities.

The shopping trip where Charlotte selects the traditional solitaire takes place in season 3, a scene often mentioned in recaps for showing her taste for classic, heirloom-style jewellery as part of her romantic arc.
Aidan Shaw’s traditional diamond engagement ring for Carrie in Sex and the City

Aidan Shaw’s turquoise engagement ring for Carrie

In the series, Carrie was first engaged to Mr. Big in a dramatic moment when he proposed to her in Paris, presenting her with a traditional diamond ring. However, their relationship was tumultuous, marked by on-again, off-again dynamics that ultimately led to their breakup. This initial engagement set the stage for Carrie's evolving views on love and commitment, culminating in Aidan Shaw surprising her with a stunning turquoise engagement ring, which symbolises a more genuine and affectionate connection.

Aidan’s turquoise gift for Carrie ties back to an earlier engagement storyline and is often mentioned in series summaries as a contrast to later white-diamond proposals, underlining the different emotional tone of each relationship.
stunning 3-carat asscher diamond engagement ring in pave setting from Charlotte in Sex and the City

Charlotte’s second engagement ring from Harry Goldenblatt

Before her fairy-tale romance with Harry, Charlotte was first engaged to Trey McDougal, a marriage that ultimately fell short of her dreams. Following her marriage to the charming Harry, Charlotte receives a striking engagement ring that encapsulates her fairy-tale aspirations. This ring boasts a stunning 3-carat asscher diamond. It perfectly aligns with Charlotte's desire for a storybook life, combining elegance and whimsy in one exquisite piece, ultimately celebrating the beauty of love in its various forms.

Harry’s later proposal and the distinct asscher-style stone are recounted in articles about Charlotte’s second marriage; commentary frequently notes the ring’s vintage-inspired look and compares it to classic celebrity commissions that evoke an old-Hollywood feel.
These famous engagement rings from Sex and the City not only serve as iconic representations of the characters' journeys through love and commitment but also offer inspiration for those seeking to find or design their own perfect token of affection.

Estimated market value of each Sex and the City engagement ring

Below are conservative market-value ranges for the main rings featured in the series, followed by the assumptions and reasoning behind each estimate. These ranges reflect what comparable stones and settings would typically command on the open market in recent years.

Carrie Bradshaw - Mr. Big's black diamond ring: $40,000–$80,000

Estimate assumes the centre stone is roughly 4–6 carats, a deep black natural or treated black diamond with moderate clarity typical for darker stones, and a white-gold setting with extensive pavé side stones. The valuation reflects lower per-carat pricing for highly saturated black diamonds versus white stones, while the large size and detailed pavé setting raise the overall value. Uncertainty comes from whether the centre stone is natural or treated, which affects price; the estimate assumes a VS–SI clarity equivalent and a typical per-carat range for sizeable black stones.

Carrie Bradshaw - Aidan’s turquoise ring: $2,000–$10,000

This turquoise-centred ring is valued mainly for the coloured gem and the mounting rather than diamond weight. The range assumes a medium-to-large turquoise cabochon set in gold with modest accent diamonds. Variables include the turquoise’s quality (stabilised or high-quality natural), accent diamond weight, and metal type. Coloured gems vary widely in provenance and treatment, so this estimate is deliberately broad and assumes typical market grades for decorative celebrity pieces.

Charlotte McDougal - Trey’s 2.17 ct solitaire: $25,000–$45,000

Based on the reported 2.17 carat round brilliant and the show's suggestion of a designer purchase, this range assumes a round brilliant around G–H colour and VS–SI clarity equivalent in a platinum or gold setting. The estimate reflects per-carat pricing for well-cut white diamonds of this size plus a modest brand or retailer premium implied by the scene. Uncertainty stems from the diamond’s exact colour and clarity and any designer hallmark.

Charlotte Goldenblatt - Harry’s asscher (reported ~3 ct): $60,000–$140,000

Assuming a high-quality 3 carat asscher-cut diamond with good cut and clarity in a bespoke setting, this range reflects the higher per-carat premium for large step-cut stones. The broad spread accounts for differences in colour and clarity and any bespoke design fees or side-stone weight; an asscher of exceptional clarity and near-colourless grade at this scale can push the value toward the high end.

Miranda Hobbes - cushion-cut with delicate band: $10,000–$35,000

This assumes a centre cushion-cut diamond between about 1.5 and 3 carats, set in a refined band with pavé or channel accents. The range depends on carat weight, cut proportions and clarity; cushion cuts vary in face-up appearance, which strongly influences market value. The assumed clarity is VS–SI equivalent and a white-gold or platinum setting is presumed.

Samantha Jones - diamond flower ring (auction piece): $8,000–$60,000

Because Samantha’s ring is an ornate floral cluster rather than a single large brilliant, value depends on total diamond weight, the centre stone if present, and any designer provenance from the auction. The lower end reflects decorative cluster pieces with modest total carat weight; the upper end accounts for designer pieces or significant centre stones sold through auction houses.

Valuation methodology and assumptions

Each estimate combines visible or reported carat sizes and setting complexity with typical market per-carat ranges for the given cuts and years. When a designer or retailer cue appears in the storyline, a modest brand premium is included. Assumptions above generally follow a conservative continuity: clarity in the VS–SI range, colour near-colourless for white diamonds, and 18k or platinum settings unless otherwise noted. Because the series and promotional material do not provide full gemological reports for the screen pieces, these ranges acknowledge material uncertainty.

Sources and caveats

Estimates draw on reported carat sizes and setting descriptions from publicity material and specialist write-ups, combined with typical retail and auction market behaviour for comparable stones. Exact market value for any screened prop would require a formal gemological report and provenance verification; treated versus natural status for coloured or black stones in particular can change value significantly.

Find the perfect engagement ring at BAUNAT

Inspired by the exquisite engagement rings of Sex and the City? At BAUNAT, we offer a wide range of bespoke engagement rings that combine exceptional craftsmanship with unparalleled luxury. Whether you are drawn to the unique allure of a black diamond or the timeless elegance of a solitaire brilliant, our collection caters to every style and preference.
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  • Fabienne, manager of the German market is able to guide every client with finding the right jewel. She takes care of most of the German orders, but also takes other task on her plate. Thanks to her six  years of experience at BAUNAT she acquainted well with the product and the marketing around it. Her degree in PR ensures that BAUNAT is well presented across all media channels. For anyone looking into a new investment opportunity, Fabienne is the perfect guide in this process. No question will be left unanswered, and she will help you every step of the way.

    Selected Bespoke Projects

    Eternal Bloom bespoke engagement concept - Role: project lead for client briefing and prototype coordination. Fabienne translated personal design references into a 3D-printed prototype, supervised stone selection and ensured the finished piece matched the client’s vision and comfort preferences.

    • Personalized anniversary necklace - Role: design coordinator and quality overseer. She managed the custom design process from the initial sketch to final polishing, liaising between client and workshop to preserve proportions and finish.

    • Reimagined heirloom ring restoration and redesign - Role: client consultant and technical coordinator. Fabienne guided the client through options to modernize setting details while keeping sentimental elements, delivering a wearable result that respected the original piece.

    Her hands-on involvement in bespoke commissions ensures each custom order has a clear brief, careful prototype review and close follow-up with the workshop, so clients receive a tailored jewel that meets both aesthetic and practical expectations.

    Professional enquiries

    For speaking engagements, press requests or research collaborations, please send your message to BAUNAT’s communications team with the subject line: "Fabienne Rauw  -  Professional Enquiry." Include a brief description of the request and any relevant dates or documents. The communications team will route enquiries to Fabienne and provide guidance on next steps.

Fabienne, manager of the German market is able to guide every client with finding the right jewel. She takes care of most of the German orders, but also takes other task on her plate. Thanks to her six  years of experience at BAUNAT she acquainted well with the product and the marketing around it. Her degree in PR ensures that BAUNAT is well presented across all media channels. For anyone looking into a new investment opportunity, Fabienne is the perfect guide in this process. No question will be left unanswered, and she will help you every step of the way.

Selected Bespoke Projects

Eternal Bloom bespoke engagement concept - Role: project lead for client briefing and prototype coordination. Fabienne translated personal design references into a 3D-printed prototype, supervised stone selection and ensured the finished piece matched the client’s vision and comfort preferences.

• Personalized anniversary necklace - Role: design coordinator and quality overseer. She managed the custom design process from the initial sketch to final polishing, liaising between client and workshop to preserve proportions and finish.

• Reimagined heirloom ring restoration and redesign - Role: client consultant and technical coordinator. Fabienne guided the client through options to modernize setting details while keeping sentimental elements, delivering a wearable result that respected the original piece.

Her hands-on involvement in bespoke commissions ensures each custom order has a clear brief, careful prototype review and close follow-up with the workshop, so clients receive a tailored jewel that meets both aesthetic and practical expectations.

Professional enquiries

For speaking engagements, press requests or research collaborations, please send your message to BAUNAT’s communications team with the subject line: "Fabienne Rauw  -  Professional Enquiry." Include a brief description of the request and any relevant dates or documents. The communications team will route enquiries to Fabienne and provide guidance on next steps.