How to keep it a surprise?
Measure the ring size without her knowing
To secretly obtain her ring size, you will have to get creative. You can try asking people who are close to her such as her best friend, her sister or her mom. Only ask them if you know they can keep a secret.
If you want to measure one of her existing rings, make sure she wears it on the correct finger. The ring should have a comparable thickness and should properly fit her as well. Also, remember to put the ring back exactly where you found it.
If you really need to measure her ring finger, you could try to use our synthetic or paper ring sizer or even a piece of string to measure the circumference of her ring finger while she is sleeping. This is only advisable if you know she is a sound sleeper.